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An Open Letter to the Men of the Left, Especially in the Chican@ Community, Especially in Tucson

04 Jan

We refuse to make a choice between our cultural identity and sexual identity, between our race and our femaleness. We are not turning our backs on our people nor on our selves.

— Cherríe Moraga, This Bridge Called My Back

There is one thing that the Left and the Right often agree on: women’s concerns (our rights, our safety, our health, our progress) are disposable, dispensable; they are a distraction from the truly “important” issues. We won’t address the issues of the Right here, but we say to our sisters and brothers on the Left: If you claim to be working for the liberation of your people, and for the liberation of other peoples of color, and you’re still beating or threatening or harassing or raping or assaulting or enslaving women, you are totally missing the point. And you will fail.

No one can be truly free, no one can be respected and have equality of opportunity — and certainly no man can have full personhood — until all women, especially women of color, are safe from the rages and oppressions and depredations/degradations of men, including men of color.

The racism of the world does not make it OK to take out your frustrations on those closest to you. It is not OK to terrorize someone you claim to love. It is not OK to (attempt to) silence women who are speaking our truth, and it is not OK to demonize those who challenge your petty authority (no matter how much you have struggled to wrest that status from the hands of the dominant culture).

You cramp my style, baby

when you roll on top of me

shouting “Viva La Raza”

at the top of your prick.

— Lorna Dee Cervantes, “Baby you cramp my style”

We are calling upon all men of the Left, and today, especially, we call upon the male leaders of the Mexican American Studies and Ethnic Studies struggles here in Tucson and beyond to repudiate the oppression of women in both institutional settings and in our homes and families and in the hard-working rooms of political organizing, la lucha.

We fully expect that those who have taught or claimed to believe in “In Lak Ech” will stand up and say: “Not in my name. No más.” Manifestations of widespread misogyny and sexism must be acknowledged before it can be eradicated — for the benefit of us all, women and men and children. We need healing, but not at the expense of silencing women.

If we are “your other me,” then you must look deeply at how you treat us and yourselves. You must open your eyes and look at the boys and young men who see you as role models and ask: “Am I teaching what I want them to learn?” Your actions must match your words. It is not women’s job to make this abuse stop. Men must stop these destructive behaviors in themselves and in other men. Men must call out other men to walk their talk. Be brave! Stand up for women! Clean up your own house, examine your own oppressor behaviors, demand change from your compadres. Until that happens, no true healing of our community, no true liberation, is possible.

We close this letter with the words of Norma Alarcón: “women are seen not just by one patriarchy but by all as rapeable and sexually exploitable,” and thus “to choose among extant patriarchies is not a choice at all” (“Chicana’s Feminist Literature: A Re-Vision Through Malintzin”).  Dismantling racism also demands a dismantling of sexism. We look forward to statements and actions from the men of MAS, from the leadership of the Chican@ communities, and from the larger Left/progressive communities.

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Posted by on January 4, 2013 in Tucson movement

 

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2 responses to “An Open Letter to the Men of the Left, Especially in the Chican@ Community, Especially in Tucson

  1. Raquel

    January 4, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    Heteropatriarchy destroyed the movement in the 70s, and we can’t afford to let that happen again.

    http://www.hist.umn.edu/hist1302/Readings/Moraga%20Readings.pdf

     
  2. Gregório

    January 23, 2013 at 2:28 pm

    Two points that jumped out to me were…
    1) “misogyny and sexism must be acknowledged before it can be eradicated” and I see malintZINE as one of the major vehicles for shedding light and disseminating that reality.
    2) That the issue of equality for women is as much, if not more, of an equality issue as it is a women’s issue. Also that MEN must have the courage and capacity to stand up to patriarchy, to call it out for what it is, and push back against it, especially in those male only spaces where oppressive behaviors are most often learned.
    (I guess a 3rd major point I took away is that All of this needs to start from within, with an examination of your own role before expanding outward)

    I’d also like to echo a sentiment from this post that I Very much agree with which is that there is no equality until EVERYBODY is equal. That equality and respect in one realm does not justify or excuse oppression in another.

     

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